I have recently been reflecting on how hard it is to take over leadership from someone who has done well. Think, for example, of the difficulties Manchester United has had since Sir Alex retired. It can often be the same in churches or mission agencies following the tenure of a particularly significant leader.
While it will be a perfectly natural response to miss a much-loved leader, and wonder what will happen without them, or even have fears for the future, such feelings can easily become negative thoughts about their successor. We can start to wonder if she is fit to follow in the footsteps of such a great saint. Or possibly even resent every change that she makes even if it is for the better. This then gets us into the habit of continually being cynical about her tenure.
So how can we be good team members at a time of transition?
1. We can recognize that transition destabilises us emotionally. We are crossing over from a place of certainty and we need to be aware of our own fragility which can make us overreact to even the smallest changes. At times like these we need to focus on what has not changed, and this helps us through. Other colleagues, friends, and of course God!
2. We remember that we support the team not the leader. After Sir Alex, retired, very few Man U fans will have stopped supporting the club. In fact their subsequent disappointment and frustration are functions of their love for Man U! Likewise we are in partnership with an organization, a family, a movement which is bigger than any one person.
3. We understand that any agency evolves over time as leadership passes from hand to hand. For some organisations that has been happening for decades, maybe even a century or more, and the agency still goes on. Each new leader has the opportunity to shape the agency but it has weathered handover before and probably will again.
4. We can give the new leadership time. In fact we can empathise with them because no matter what our current role, we too were once rookies and had to learn the job from scratch. We asked stupid questions and made silly mistakes which would embarrass us now if we remembered them.
5. We acknowledge that each new leader needs our support. When King David headed off a power grab by his ambitious son Adonijah (1 Kings 1) by publicly crowning Solomon instead, it was only the loyalty of brave people like Bathsheba, Nathan and Zadok that created a groundswell of popular support. We have a choice – we can be a backstabber or a cheerleader.
Not everybody taking over the baton does well. Sometimes they drop it, or get off to a slow start. That’s not the time to lose faith in them. They may be able to pick it up and carry on running. If they do, it’s our cheers that will help them catch up.
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